我管不了这个儿子/I’m not managing the son of mine

他现在11岁,我根本管不了他,平时不能打不能骂,连检查他作业的要求都被断然并强烈拒绝。他让我相信他,做完了,不用检查。

其实我也可以强行检查,但是我呢是暗自把他当小白鼠养殖着,这是我的自然成熟法。和他爸唱反调的我,认为只要孩子快乐,在观察中学习,长大不被哪里抓起来,就行啦。

想象一下,每个地球人由他的基因和个人的强烈愿望长成一个个独一无二的人参娃娃,造福社会,而不是被我们家长和社会系统雕塑出一个统一的模子,人类会怎样发展?每一个个体又会怎样快乐。

He’s 11 at the moment, I can’t manage him any more, usually you are not allowed to yell or beat him, even the request to check his home work is been disrupted abruptly. He asked me to believe him, he’s done it, no need to check.

Although I can force the check, but secretly I’m raising him as my little white rat, this is my natural raising method. I wanted to be different with his dad, I think as long as he is happy, he can learn through observe, as long as I don’t raise him into something like a prison, that’s enough.

Imagine this, each earth person grow with his/her own genetic genes and desperate personal will, to become a none to one Ginseng baby, contribute to the society, and not sculptured by us parents and society into one unity model, what human beings will become? How happy each individual will become?

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